The Pettersson's

The Pettersson's
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Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Worth It!

I have had recent experiences that weren't so pleasant. 
I have learned so much about myself. 
I have learned that it really isn't about "Me" and that I shouldn't assume things.
It is so important to go to the person with the issue instead of asking everyone around you.

I was able to go straight to the person and ask them what is going on. 
Let me tell you... It was SO WORTH IT!
I was really nervous about confronting and asking them about what was going on.
I finally got the courage to do this.
It is amazing to know that you aren't the problem or the reason why things were happening. Before this, I just assumed that it was all my fault. It ended up not even being about me... I felt kind of stupid for thinking that it was my fault things were happening. There was a little something that happened that let to this, but I apologized.
I was able to say sorry if there was anything that I have done. It was nice. It was really scary for me to do this but I did it!
If there is anything that you have done to hurt someones feelings, I would apologize as fast as you can! You will feel a lot better. You will feel peace. Don't hold on to grudges. It will destroy you. That is exactly what I was feeling, but when I touched bases with this person... We were able to move on! We are letting are relationship grow and develop! 

That is why I am saying that it is worth it to forgive people! It is also important to not assume things. Go straight to the person. 
You definitely need to see the bigger picture of the situation.
I can't tell you how relieved I am for apologizing and forgiving!